What my dad has taught me about leadership
As the daughter of an Executive Coach, it’s no shock I ended up in the global leadership coaching industry. Looks like the apple didn’t just fall far from the tree—it got a little coaching and landed right back next to it!
But today - since it is my Dad's birthday - I need to take a moment to celebrate this special man.
Let me tell you about THE OG John Locke
My Dad is undeniably awesome. He is kind, thoughtful, incredibly giving, athletic, a singer, dancer and a man of God. So, as I sat down to reflect on the leadership lessons he’s taught me, I realized how impossible it would be to capture them all.
But knowing that time is short and LinkedIn attention spans are limited - I'll simply share a few that have profoundly shaped me.
#1 Generosity is Your Best Networking Tool
Dad has an uncanny way of making people feel seen and valued. Whether it’s a neighbor, a colleague, or a complete stranger, he shows up with genuine generosity—not just with resources but with time, attention, and encouragement.
“Your network grows when you give without keeping score.”
Undeniably, Dad is the master networker, but this comes from a genuine desire to improve the lives of others. He taught me that when you lead with giving, people want to work with you, for you, and around you.
#2 Public Speaking is a Mirror for Self-Awareness
As a kid, I went to countless Toastmasters events across the South Eastern USA. At the time, I may have dreaded all of these - or even rolled my eyes when I had to be the "ah counter" but I am now willing to admit that some of these lessons actually stuck.
Notably, when you speak in front of others, you’re not only putting your content to the test—you’re putting yourself under a microscope.
Every leader also needs to realize that body language and tone of voice matters just as much as the story being told. Confidence is more than experience - it is your PRESENCE.
Your presence - that is often what people will remember.
#3 Beautiful, Meaningful Careers are also the Squiggly Ones
In a world that assumes linear career trajectories, Dad’s own experience is a breath of fresh air.
Having 12 different careers in his lifetime, he taught me to embrace the unexpected detours. I can see how his experiences have allowed him the ability to relate to people - no matter their professional background. Similarly, when coaching leaders who feel stuck or unsure, I often channel Dad’s innate wisdom: the squiggly career is often the most relatable and interesting one.
Please help me!
There are a billion other leadership lessons I’ve learned from Dad. But today, I’d really appreciate your help.
If you know my John Locke, you likely have a story, a quote, or a memory about how he’s impacted your professional journey. Since it’s his birthday, would you share it below? Reading these reminders would be the best birthday present I could give him. Thank you for helping me celebrate the leaders in our lives!!
Happy Birthday, Daddy-O :)
